deal with it girl, yes, you can!

I tried to understand what just happened to me this day actually. Maybe it was dissapointing thing, it was, but i try to deal with it. There's a quote, grow up means accept things that we can not change..i was so..., i do not how to say it in english, the feeling, between dissapointed-patiented-then smiled.. a friend asked me then after a few minutes. And my answer would be,"all i can do is just smile, answering your question, this is some puzzle to me to, i do not know how to describe it. the next thing i told her, that "actually it was just an ordinary thing, but somehow my heart has made it become a special one...
i begin to realize something, that is, to accept, to deal for something that we can not change...eventhough i am eager to....but the fact sometimes it does not like we want..maybe it just what exactly what I need maybe..
i reply her, maybe all i need for now is to be more deeply thought at my self..yupz in to deep in me!
remember another quote: "there are more to see than meets the eye"